Nobody likes the guy who hogs all the stuffing on Thanksgiving. Don’t be that guy.

Buzzfeed has come up with a few rules to follow when you’re going to your Turkey Day feast – the unwritten rules of Thanksgiving.

Whether you’re looking to help out in the kitchen or talking about subjects that you should really stay away from, use this guide and you can avoid some of those awkward or terrible moments on the holiday.

Oh, and don’t forget – the cook gets to start drinking whenever he or she wants.