You might have been the one doing the dumping or the one getting dumped, but we’ve all been through breakups. Whether you’re single or attached for Valentine’s Day, plenty of us get tired of the chocolates and flowers long before the day actually gets here. Instead of celebrating a day when Cupid comes around and gruesomely shoots people with his arrows, we could instead focus on the anti-Valentine.

In this video you’ll see the gentle breakup, the surprise breakup, the kicking and screaming breakup, and everything in between.

Do you have a favorite way that you like to break up when it comes that time in a relationship?