Poor Usher. He can barely catch a break with his actual ex-wife Tameka Foster, as the two are in the middle of a custody battle over their two sons after she claimed he was a terrible father. But now the singer has to deal with a crazed woman claiming to be married to him.  That s— cray. (Are people still saying that?)

Usher recently obtained a restraining order against Darshelle Jones-Rakestraw, the 26-year-old woman who’s convinced she’s his better half. Court documents note that she showed up at his Georgia home and harassed him and his family by literally pounding on the front door demanding to be let in.

Cops were called and she was told to stay away, but the next day she returned and the cops made an encore appearance. Here’s the best part: she tried convincing them that she was Usher’s wife and she had simply misplaced her keys. The cops didn’t buy her story for a second because they know he’s currently not married, and placed her under arrest.

Darshelle took to, where else, YouTube to discuss everything and explained that Usher had been sending her money for months. “I’m not a stalker,” she says in the video. “[Usher] has officially slandered me and defamed my character.” She plans to file defamation charges against him.

Watch Darshelle Explain Herself on YouTube